Nobody is perfect

Nobody is perfect. There is no requirement for you to be perfect, nor can you become perfect in the first place.

So stop. Stop trying your best to become what you can never be.
Its good to set high targets. Its good to jump high, but if you can't reach it, you'll fall.

Stop feeling guilty for every single mistake you do. There is no such thing as a total loss. Every single action has its pros and cons. Thank God that you are still alive, for what doesn't kill you, only makes you strong, ONLY if you are willing to learn from it.. But beware, just as failure is the mother of success, it also works the other way round.

Don't be something you're not. You don't want to live out your entire life feeling uncomfortable, yet too comfortable and you'll slip into passiveness. We are all humans, don't try to be God, for we are not God.

Instead, set reachable challenges for yourself. And when you reach them, congratulate yourself. Learn to love yourself, then others can love you and you can love others. Its not easy, but one step at a time. As long as you continue walking on a ten mile(non-infinite) journey, you WILL get there.

Go on, give yourself a pat in the back, you've done so well already. Continue to improve yourself.